Say No to New Year’s Resolutions!

Every Year I hear of a lot of people making New Year’s Resolutions to loose weight, make more money or just do better at something. I think their only setting themselves up for failure, I mean not all things can start with a jump into the deep end. Why not rather start small, start with changing your thinking or those ugly little habits off walking to the fridge in between meals.

I myself live to eat and only made the decision to eat more healthy food and a little less sugar and when the time comes I’ll make the decision to change another bad habit.

Plus who can start with diet when I have just discovered YUMMY Aussie cookies right here in lovely SA!

Hope…prayer…faith…God… Everything that makes it happen…

Have you ever waited for something for long that you started thinking it was never going to happen. Something, some happiness or some love that just looked like it was never going to come your way, well …I got it!

Let me explain! …I love animals! And the last time I had what you would call a huggable creature was in 2002. It was a Yorkshire terrier called Millo, and she was beautiful and such a little miracle! So, for the last 4 years I’ve been looking for a new miracle, in the Newspapers, at pet shops and with everybody I knew who had Yorkshire terriers. But it just didn’t happen, something was always a little off! It was either me being in London (where I obviously couldn’t keep a dog) or there were some money issues and other stuff that always got in the way!

…And then it happened! Almost exactly 4 years after Millo died. I was given a BIG blessing in a tiny body!

She is now about 3 months old and is almost fully house-trained, she knows where her bed is and where I keep her toys. She knows not to wake me up but rather sit and wait patiently until I open my eyes. We’ve even had our first “drowning experience”! I was lying on the one side of the pool and my sister on the other and as usual Coco was just going nuts! She was fighting-off bugs and chewing on plants when, like a student driver, she just backed-up all-of–a-sudden and found herself in 3 feet under water and still going down. It took me what felt like forever to realize I need to do something and the next moment I found myself standing next to my sister in the pool with a wet puppy in my hands.

So, I hope you’re not just sitting around waiting for it to come your way, you better be out there …patiently …searching…

What a waste!!!

The South African government decided a while ago that they need to change all names that stem from the apartheid era, talk about holding a grudge. I didn’t mind when it was small changes but now they’ve gone and changed Johannesburg International Airport to O. R. Thambo Airport.

Let me tell you a little something… in this country 30% of the people don’t have jobs. That means 30% is starving, and that means 30% needs to steal, kill or hi-jack cars to get some sort of income and that’s not even taking into account the children that are starving, dying of diseases or growing-up without an education meaning that they to will become part of the now 30%.

Like I said, I don’t mind the small changes, but taking food or education away from an already deprived child is just wrong. There is no way to justify spending millions of Rands on changing a name when there is a hungry child.

Hills in SA

When I heard that Hillsong London was coming to SA, I just had to go! Landi and Andre came with me and it was a good night to share them. As always, spending a night in the presence of God is great and then having Pastor Gary saying just what you needed to hear maked it even better!!!

She's here!!!

I am happy to report that the yorkie I have been waiting for is here!!! On the 27 Oct I was invited to go and pick a puppy so that I could decide on a name and then she could be registers. Well, after much consideration and a few strange suggestions I decided that a designer dog should have a designer name! So I would like you to meet Coco Chanel...

I get to pick her up on the 25 Nov, YAY!!!

Before I go I would like to apologize for not blogging as much these days and also ask that the person responsible for the Shakespearian-hate-mail please stop!!!

This Applies To You

A good woman is proud of herself.
She respects herself and others.
She is aware of who she is.
She neither seeks definition from the person she is with,

nor does she expect them to read her mind.
She is quite capable of articulating her needs.

A good woman is hopeful.
She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true.
She knows love, therefore she gives love.
She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated.
If her love is taken for granted,

it soon disappears.

A good woman has a dash of inspiration, a dabble of endurance.
She knows that she will, at times,

have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them.
A good woman knows her past,

understands her present and moves toward the future.

A good woman knows God.
She knows that with God the world is her playground,

but without God she will just be played.
A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past.
Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons,

meant to bring her closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love.

An email from a friend.

...shoes

I’ve just recently re-done my room, and noticed that I have a LOT of shoes. So I thought that it’s probably time for a name change, I mean, this season is a bit of a lonely one and I think it has more to do with the shoes that I’m in (you’ll get it if you can read the deeper meaning)…It’s such a girl thing to do, comparing my life with shoes. But for those of you who get it, I’m not exactly in the high-heel of party seasons! I’m in more of the comfy slipper season, plus I think I’ve been spending to much time in my slippers.

My apologies for being such a bad blogger these days, I haven’t had much time to spend in front of the computer! …and if your wondering what have I been doing with my time seeing as don’t work or study …yet! I have been taking art lessons to help with my portfolio for Varsity next year. Please pray that they like it!!!

PS. The Springboks played a lovely game on Saturday, didn’t they?

Rabbits

Women's day

Africa

So, all you peeps out there that is not from Africa believe that we live with a pet lion at our front door and a giraffe in the garden trimming the trees, not to mention the fat hippo in the swimming pool. Well, have a look at these pics!

Nah, just kidding they were taken on Saturday at a nature reserve called Rhino and Lion. We went there as part of a surprise for Landis birthday. She loved it! While there, we got the chance to play with two lion cubs called Shakira and Nandi. Yes, that is correct the lion was named after me!!! My soon-to-be-brother-in-law was bitten on the hand and above the knee; guess they didn’t like him that much! But here most of the animals live together in harmony, you could see that when we went to see a snoozing baby rhino cause he had a goat standing on top of him… how funny is that…

It was a great day. We even got to see somebody’s tyre get ripped off because they got to close to the big lions (that’s what happens when you don’t sick to the rules) …

The new season

It's all done! I'm back in S.A. and loving it... I must say that I've heard some bad stuff about South Africa lately (back in London), but this is where my heart is and my home.

So, this new season has started and it's gonna be a great one! I haven't got my puppy yet (just incase you were wondering). But I have got my family and three other dogs (not mine) to look after. Plus I have forgotten how good it is to sleep in your own bed, cook in your own kitchen and have your bathroom to yourself!!! It's fantastic!!!

I've only been home for 5 days but there are some places that I miss, like the Dominion Theater, Starbucks on Putney High Street and No. 48 Evenwood Close... not to mention the people!

Life-changing friends

I'd like to show you my London family

Host team for the 6:45 service

Beautiful Hosts

Puntey Connect Group

Roehampton Connect Group

The group you can't forget!

Kelly-Anne & Violet

Which one should I choose?

Yorkshire Terrier

or

French Bulldog

Stick People

*Hillsong Woman's Day*

Thanks for your pics Rinne!

Revolting way to tan

On my walk back to South Ken from the Hillsong Woman’s day thingy I walked past the Westminster Cemetery and saw something very strange. There, ON THE GRAVES, were a few people lying around …TANNING!!! How nauseating! There are more than enough beautiful parks in London, how could anyone feel the need to lie down on grave?

After that shocker, I and Caroline went to see if there were any theatre shows we could go see that hasn’t already started, and the only one we could find was …

It was a bit foul, but funny.

The Bevere Weekend








This was one very amazing weekend with John and Lisa Bevere. We spent the whole Saturday with Lisa at the Hillsong Woman’s Day.

And something that she said has really stuck with me since Saturday.
This is what she said:

The Bible says:

Proverbs 30: 21-23

Under three things the earth trembles, under four it cannot bear up:

a servant who becomes king, a fool who is full of food,

an unloved woman who is married, and a maidservant who displaces her mistress.

And now have look at where the big earthquakes have been the last few years…

Makes you think bout what this world is coming to...

Tick-Tock, Tick-Tock...

Only 17 days left than I'll be back in Pretoria!!!

Just a Thought

Hebrews 13: 1-2

Keep on loving each other as brothers. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it.

THINGS A SISTA SHOULD NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR

I kinda have a problem with apologizing for everything. Whether I'm right or wrong, I'm always the one to say sorry... Guess thats why someone sent me this email.

1. Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always do what you really want.

2. Never apologize for using proper English. Keeping it real doesn't mean speaking Ebonics.

3. Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn't work out.

4. Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at their level.

5. Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself.

6. Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you as you are.

7. Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn't mean you're cheap.

8. Don't apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a blessing.

9. Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Sometimes you have to show yourself some appreciation.

10. Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority.

11. Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.

12. Never apologize for saying NO.

13. Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There's a reason she's been your girl from day one.

14. Never apologize for ordering dessert or more than one dessert.

15. Never apologize for dating outside your race. Just because you found Mr. Right across the colour line doesn't mean you don't love your brothas.

16. Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always be treated as a queen.

17. Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can't burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out. (Right Girl!)

18. Never apologize for your taste in clothes. It's your style. 22. Never apologize for changing your mind, it is your prerogative.

19. Never apologize for making a decision from your heart, even if others don't agree. You have to live with the consequences not them.

20. Never apologize for being you!

KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP MOVING FORWARD ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT GOD LOVES YOU AND HE'S GOT YOUR BACK